Went to a social event this past weekend, and I did notice others already correcting themselves as they were sharing. And I thought - "it didn't even cross my mind to judge you on that; you're good!" It's interesting noticing when others feel it, yet always harder to catch yourself mining the gap!
Fav pizza toppings are def olives & mushrooms... but the more the better! All the veggies!!
Regarding the liking gap - I have seen this come up again and again - people don't want to attend social spaces because they feel they are unliked, or are worried about how some comment or behavior may be interpreted. While in reality... most folks would be happy if they showed up again. It's a constant source of fuel I put into building community - helping folks get out of their heads, and into together spaces.
I met someone new just this past Monday! And I did feel intimidated as soon as I learned they had a PhD but then they immediately said it wasn't as great as it's glorified to be and that it was so stressful. It was good to break down some misconceptions and barriers in the beginning - I think it helped the connection.
Also, for pizza, Hawaiian all the way - I love my sweet & savouries!
Went to a social event this past weekend, and I did notice others already correcting themselves as they were sharing. And I thought - "it didn't even cross my mind to judge you on that; you're good!" It's interesting noticing when others feel it, yet always harder to catch yourself mining the gap!
Fav pizza toppings are def olives & mushrooms... but the more the better! All the veggies!!
Regarding the liking gap - I have seen this come up again and again - people don't want to attend social spaces because they feel they are unliked, or are worried about how some comment or behavior may be interpreted. While in reality... most folks would be happy if they showed up again. It's a constant source of fuel I put into building community - helping folks get out of their heads, and into together spaces.
Thick pieces of bacon
I met someone new just this past Monday! And I did feel intimidated as soon as I learned they had a PhD but then they immediately said it wasn't as great as it's glorified to be and that it was so stressful. It was good to break down some misconceptions and barriers in the beginning - I think it helped the connection.
Also, for pizza, Hawaiian all the way - I love my sweet & savouries!